The NEVERS of talking to CYS for Parents

The NEVERS of talking to CYS for Parents ...

1) NEVER admit to ever doing any drugs even as a kid or in college, including marijuana.

2) NEVER admit to growing up in any type of abuse including emotional.

3) NEVER admit to any type of abuse with your spouse/partner or past relationships including emotional

4) NEVER let them in your house if they don't have a warrant or court order

5) NEVER sign any paperwork

6) NEVER let them speak to your children without a lawyer present and a recording device

7) NEVER speak to them without a recording device or alone.  Always have a witness.

8) NEVER answer leading questions

9) NEVER admit to mental health or other disabilities

10) NEVER do a psych evaluation with DCS/State doctors

11) NEVER think they are your friend.

12) Never use a court appointed atty.

13) Never allow CASA to get involved in your case

14) Never go alone to meetings, visits, court

15) Do not permit conference calls unless everyone listening identifies themselves and write down who they are.  Do not permit caseworkers to use cell phones during a visit with you or your children.

16) Be polite but assertive when dealing with CYS employees.  Educate yourself, know your rights and do not back down to their intimidations.

17) If you are treated rudely or threatened by your caseworker, report them.  Chain of command is the caseworkers supervisor then the director then the county commissioners, then Dept of Welfare.

18) Never permit in chamber chat sessions during your court proceedings.   Demand that everything occur in the open.  I would also ask for any caseworker or CYS person giving testimony to agree to forgive immunity.  That way if they lie they can be held accountable.